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As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging – perfectionist – martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfectionism paralyzes me and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.

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I would love for you to join me as I work to undo these old patterns and evolve to create a more serene and accepting existence. (And you should know that I still want to ear flick the little knuckleheads {this includes my husband} when they don’t rinse a dish before putting it in the dishwasher — always a work in progress.)

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Ready or Not – The Secret to Moving Forward

  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  • Perfectionism: Maintaining Personal Serenity
The other day, I heard a super-helpful Steven Pressfield quote: “Start before you’re ready.” What a great reminder, Steven! This quote is the perfect nudge for me, and I’d love [...]
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Empowerment Over Approval – Choosing the Right People to Trust

  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
Here is a phrase that I never thought would pass my lips: “I absolutely care what other people think about me” The other day, after a lovely gathering with some [...]
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Seeking Advice – The Search for Affirmation in a Sea of Opinions

  • Perfectionism: Maintaining Personal Serenity
The other day, I found myself in this research tailspin about water. That’s right, water. I’m approaching 50, Team, and I was searching articles online, and consulting a personal trainer [...]
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Spring Cleaning – Taking Control of My Full Plate

  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
  • Martyrdom: Prioritizing Self-Care
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Motherhood & Chaos: Why It’s Not Our Fault

  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
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Passion’s Power: Easing the Grip of Obsessive Thoughts

  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
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Do You Want Peace and Acceptance in Your Life? Repeat After Me!

  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  • Perfectionism: Maintaining Personal Serenity
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